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Tuesday, October 6, 2026

what is our true wealth?


If we ask ourselves what we should accumulate in life, most of us would probably make a list such as money, a home, property, jewellery, position, fame and comforts.

All these things certainly have their place in life.

But beyond all these, what is our true wealth?

One day, our money may be gone.

One day, our position may leave us.

One day, our fame may fade away.

The house we built and the things we purchased may no longer remain with us.

But if we have protected and nurtured our attitude, character, integrity, truthfulness, self-discipline and compassion, these are things that will never truly leave us.

That is why the first things we should invest in are not the external riches around us, but the treasures within us.

The greatness of our life is not measured by how tall a building we live in.

It is measured by how greatly we choose to live as human beings.

Let Us Invest in Our Attitude

Even when two people face the same situation, they may respond to it in completely different ways.

One person may look at a problem and say, “I cannot do this.”

Another may look at the very same problem and ask, “What can I learn from this?”

The situation is the same.

But the attitude is different.

We cannot control everything in life. What others do, what tomorrow may bring, who will praise us and who will criticise us — none of these are entirely within our control.

But how we choose to respond to them is within our control.

Having a positive attitude does not mean living a life without problems.

It means refusing to lose hope even when problems surround us.

When failure comes, let us not allow ourselves to be broken by it. Let us learn from it.

When someone criticises us, let us not immediately become angry. Instead, let us pause and ask ourselves whether there is any truth in what they have said.

This is the kind of attitude we should invest in every day.

A person’s true value is not determined by the amount of money they possess.

The real value of their character is revealed by what people say about them when they are not present.

We have all seen people around us who hold important positions.

Some possess great wealth.

Some are highly respected and famous in society.

But if their character is not good, their money, position and fame do not truly make them great.

At the same time, there are ordinary people who live simple lives but possess beautiful character. Those who meet them remember them in their hearts for many years.

The greatest mark we leave behind in this world is not our wealth, but our character.

Integrity does not mean being honest only when others are watching.

Integrity is doing what is right even when nobody is watching.

When we are alone, we cannot lie to our own conscience.

There may be times when honesty does not immediately bring us any benefit.

At times, an honest person may even appear to be falling behind.

But as time passes, the value of integrity becomes immeasurable.

If we lose money, we may earn it again.

If we lose a position, we may regain it.

But once trust is lost, rebuilding it can be extremely difficult.

Therefore, let us build an honest bridge between our words and our actions.

Being truthful is not simply about speaking the truth.

Being true to ourselves also means not hiding who we are, not pretending to be someone else, accepting our mistakes and having the courage to look honestly at ourselves.

A person who can say, “I made a mistake,” is not a weak person.

On the contrary, the person who lacks the courage to say those words and instead keeps justifying their mistakes is the one who prevents their own growth.

A person who is honest with themselves can continue to grow throughout life.

We may have the freedom to do many things in life.

But that does not mean we need to do everything.

Speaking immediately when we are angry is easy.

But remaining silent for a few moments instead of speaking in anger is self-discipline.

Buying something the moment we desire it is easy.

But stopping to ask whether we really need it before making the decision is self-discipline.

When someone provokes us, responding immediately is easy.

But thinking about whether our words might hurt another person is self-discipline.

When we learn to control ourselves, we can protect ourselves from many unnecessary problems in life.

Finally, one of the greatest treasures we should always carry within us is compassion.

Every person we meet may be going through some kind of struggle.

Someone who is smiling may be crying inside.

Someone who appears confident may secretly be afraid.

Someone who never asks us for help may still be longing for someone to reach out to them.

Therefore, before judging another person, let us pause for a moment and try to understand what they may be going through.

A kind word.

A loving look.

A small act of help.

A patient willingness to listen.

These may seem like small things to us.

But in another person’s life, they may have enormous meaning.

The love and compassion we give are not treasures that become smaller when we share them. They are treasures that grow the more we give them
Dear Friends,

Let us occasionally pause and ask ourselves what we are truly accumulating in life.

We may check whether there is enough money in our bank account.

We may look around our ho how many possessions we have.

But along with these, let us also ask:

Is there peace in my mind?

Is there truth in my words?

Is there integrity in my actions?

Is there humility in my behaviour?

Is there self-discipline in my decisions?

Is there compassion in the way I treat the people around me?

Let us ask ourselves these questions.

Because, at the end of life, the amount of wealth we have accumulated is not what matters most.

What matters is the kind of human being we have chosen to become.

Let us invest in the treasures that no one can steal from us.

Let us develop a positive attitude.

Let us build good character.

Let us protect our integrity.

Let us hold on to the truth.

Let us practise self-discipline.

Let us make compassion a part of our lives.

Together, these qualities shape our highest and truest self.

We cannot control how highly the world chooses to see us.

But how deeply we develop ourselves as human beings is entirely within our hands.

That is the greatest investment we can make in life.

That is the true wealth that no one can ever take away from us.

With love,
Sakthi Sakthithasan

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